So how are things for you nowadays? All I have to offer is good advice it seems. The other person I knew from here seems ok for now but I still worry that her problems will get the best of her. I still don't like hearing that her daughter is being neglected and that she has betrayed one of her closest friends in the worst way. I know you have your problems... don't let them run you down though! Stop the perpetual cycle and do unto others as you wish done unto yourself. I am hardly religious as I haven't attended church in decades but there is truth to that statement. Slowly but surely you will rise above your challenges... Rome wasn't built in a day so you shouldn't expect immediate gratification... such as the "Life in the fast lane" does for so many people... slow down and smell the roses... "Life is sweet... Enjoy it!!"